Create Trust and Faith

Hello and welcome to my third adventure into subliminals. This time we are going into the realm of Water element, the first element of the five elements of Chinese medicine, which symbolises fear, independence, courage, freedom, the unknown, faith, trust, mystery, the ancestors, winter, and the time before birth and after death.

The archetypes associated with this element are the witch or wizard, the alchemist or the wandering healer.

So these affirmations are written to generate trust and faith in the unknown, so you can cultivate a sense of freedom to spring into action.

People who have weak Water element might struggle with fear, they may feel that there is danger around every corner for them because they struggle with feeling safe. If someone believes life is dangerous, or that there are certain institutions and authorities that are “out to get them,” they will not be very trustful people and therefore struggle taking the right course of action or any action because they feel petrified. This fear can also manifest as irrational phobias.

People who have weak Water element will also struggle with rest, as Water is the department of rest, and they will also have a common belief that “it’s all up to them” which will feel like an unbearable burden. They will also struggle with loneliness and being alone because of this strain on individualism.

When someone has restored or healthy Water element, their intuition is readily available and they make choices so easily with it that it feels as if they are being guided and supported by a mysterious force. It feels like they are floating on a river.

When someone has restored or healthy Water element, they will feel less alone, maybe even that they have company, because their intuition, their faith and strong sense of safety has given them a deeper connection to life. Patience is abundant to them because they are so trustful.

These affirmations are a way to boost this department of your life and create some of these qualities in a way that it most desirable and needed for you.

These subliminals are best listened to for an hour everyday until you see results or you feel lightheaded. Remember to keep hydrated as you listen!

You can listen to the subliminals here on YouTube

For transparency’s sake here are the affirmations that I’ve written. I will warn you that if your conscious mind is ignorant of them they work better, but what I’ve described above is a brief summary of what they will do:

When I explore and meander, I make progress every day in exactly the same way when I take direct action, and I trust that progress and whatever will come of it.

Wandering is an act of healing and it is always safe for me to wander. It’s safe to take days off and rest. Rest always serves me well. I know how to truly rest and the importance of it. Rest follows work.

If things are dark for me and I feel lost, I know that this is my deepest moment of healing.

Healing is wandering and wandering is healing.

The deepest part of me is the swiftest.

I flow and allow and so things unfold in my favour

I listen to myself and how I feel. When I listen to myself I know what action to take and how to take it. Listening always precedes my actions. I wholly and truly trust the order of events from what I feel like doing, from listening to myself.

I am deep. Everything I need to overcome any obstacle in my innate power and will, so what to do and what needs to be done simply arises. If it doesn’t rise I have ample patience that I will overwhelm or wear down the obstacle.

My faith will overcome

I am courageous because I have faith in myself and trust in my life. I trust how my life has been and how it will continue to unfold. I trust my nature and so I trust my journey.

I deeply trust the unseen and the unknown so I trust the nature of my mind.

I am independent and resourceful. My nature encourages freedom of mind and freedom of opinion.

The deeper I trust, the better my action. Trust is depth. Like the arrow in the bow, I need to go back in order to go forward.

I find the way by exploring. Exploring myself, pondering who I am is the best way to know and act on who I am. Exploring always leads to gently and slowly finding what is right and what is wrong for me, and when I know that, I can express it in my life.

Healing and recovering are matters of patience, faith and trust. The more I have these qualities, the more I can heal myself and then heal others.

Slow and steady wins the race for me

My habits are formed steadily, diligently and persistently

When I am alone I am listening to who I am and deepening my sense of self

Being alone is sacred and is an immensely good thing, I listen to my intuition when I am alone and I can hear the voices of my ancestors and the support I have from the other side when I am alone

The world and thoughts inside me are as real and physical as the world outside of me. If something can’t be seen, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

I travel through my life with a deep sense of knowing and how something feels to me. My wisdom always counsels my action. I always listen to myself before I act.

There’s nothing to fear from the unknown and mystery, this is just how life has been organised, that everything must be created or inspired by mystery

I always feel safe because I am always reassured by the divine

I am safe and so I am express my nature

My trust fuels the change and direction I need to take. My self-knowledge and expression of my nature have deep roots in my self-trust.

I’m connected and supported to my ancestors all time in all ways. It’s not all up to me, I have support.

I move with courage and perseverance

Memory, history, connections, my ancestors and bloodlines are out of time. This gives me an eternal sense of comfort and trust.

Trust, persistence, faith, intuition, doing what we feel like doing are powerful tools that I always use to great effect.

Life widens and deepens me every day.

I am courageous. I am brave. I am persistent. I am wise, I have great amounts of wisdom. I am strong. I am free

I trust deeply and so I am deeply free.

Exploration works like magic for me. I am guided and always feel the nudges to do what I need to do,

Freedom is trust for me, trust for me is freedom. Trust, faith, courage, patience, intuition and freedom are qualities I have in abundance and so work like magic in my life

For me it is freeing to have faith. It is freeing to be courageous.

Trust is magic for me.

I know how to heal and counsel myself.

I do much from wandering and when I take life slowly. It’s good to take life slowly and I can tell when I need to take life slowly.

I always know and remember there are thousands and thousands of years’ worth of people who have shared in this experience called life. Whatever I’ve experienced or whatever I’m experiencing, someone or some people before me somewhere in history have experienced it too. And even if I don’t know those long-gone people, I share a connection to them and feel their support.

I am carried to where I need to be

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of trust. My great understanding of trust is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of trust is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of courage. My great understanding of courage is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of courage and my life purpose is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of faith. My great understanding of faith is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of faith is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of wisdom. My great understanding of wisdom is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life, My understanding of wisdom is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of wisdom. My great understanding of wisdom is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life, My understanding of wisdom is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of independence. My great understanding of independence is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of independence is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of freedom. My great understanding of freedom is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of freedom is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

The Warrior Frida Kahlo (Subscriber Content)

On the sixth of July 1907, Matilde Calderón y González gave birth to a baby girl, who she and her husband Guillermo named Magdalena Carmen Frida Kahlo y Calderón, who would grow up and become the famous artist Frida Kahlo.

For this reading I’d like to keep myself as ignorant as possible on Kahlo’s life, so that readers who know her well can decide on the accuracy.

The only things I know about her life (apart from the above) are:

  • That she suffered a horrific bus accident in 1925, spent three months recovering and it crippled her.
  • She married an artist called Diego Rivera
  • She painted mostly portraits of herself, and there are a lot of them
  • She was a proud Mexican and her fashion choices reflected her Mexican pride

So now that I have come clean, what do the her eyebrows say?

The eyebrows in Chinese Face Reading indicate the natural levels of confidence we have and how we make our decisions. They can also indicate how much drive and energy we have.

When someone has naturally thick and full eyebrows, it indicates a healthy and above average level of confidence and drive. It must be noted that drive in Chinese Medicine is a translation of “anger,” we’ll come back to this.

When someone is born with these eyebrows, it’s a frequent remark that they are a handful – there is just so much aliveness and rambunction, charging into one direction and another, that it’s hard to keep up with them. Hence this person is easily frustrated.

It is the normal advice in CFR that these eyebrows should be plucked so they have less energy, drive and frustration, but what’s interesting about Kahlo is that she doesn’t have these eyebrows as a child. This is Frida at age 11:

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And this is her as an adult:

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And this is her a year after the accident in 1926, aged 19:

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In Chinese Medicine, there’s a theory that what is internal will externalise and what is external will internalise. To put it differently, the inner reflects the outer and the outer reflects the inner, hence why, with Chinese Face Reading, we’re able to read someone’s inner nature accurately from their outer features. Changes to the face happen overtime when our internal selves change and remain in a certain state, the exterior catches up to reflect the interior.

My work also incorporates a type of Asian astrology called Nine Star Ki. In Kahlo’s NSK it speaks of her being a “warrior,” someone who naturally has a lot of drive, someone who is a doer.

My deduction and interpretation of Kahlo’s eyebrows, is that as time went on and she became accustomed to the damage done to her body, her natural drive only increased and became more focused towards productivity – focusing on what she could do, rather than what she couldn’t and this meant her artwork. Also, the eyebrows may speak of a high internal pressure she was placing on herself to move about and do something. The Warrior archetype in Chinese Face Reading is notorious for not being able to sit still, but she had nothing else to do but sit still.

Her famous eyebrows weren’t there before the accident because there could have been no internal pressure and plenty of ways for her to divert her energy as an able bodied person. The more limited her life became, the more frustrated her energy became. It is true that even in the year after the accident they have yet to externalise, but I interpret this as possibly not having lived long enough with the damage to realise the extent and impact of it.

This internal will and life force was so strong that it gave her extra eyebrows. Without these eyebrows, and whatever positive outlook accompanied them, I doubt Kahlo would have produced as much work as she did. And if there was no desire and drive to continue with life after her accident, then these eyebrows would not have externalised.

Kahlo’s work is mostly self portraits.

Warriors in CFR are associated with individualism and the self. One of their many lifelong goals is to know who they are, develop a healthy relationship with the self, or to keep exploring and examining the various aspects that make up their identity and then express that. I often find that warriors end up as vocalists or artists because of their desire, or rather deep seated need, to express and voice who they are. Only when that individual expression is reached for expression’s sake, do they know themselves and then they end up – their true destiny – as change makers.

A warrior who has no sense of self, no healthy relationship to themselves, or is stuck in a situation where they are unable to remove themselves, or creatively change and soothe their mindset in that situation, so they can express and become individuals and therefore change makers, will suffer with depression. That natural drive turned inward.

So I see these eyebrows on Kahlo as a sign of immense hope after tragedy.

Despite all that I’ve said above, that’s not to say that Kahlo was free of her demons. The drive turned inward and the pain became too much. She did commit suicide in the end. Warriors are the most likely of any archetypal group in CFR to commit suicide.

Anyway, back to the subject of the self.

As discussed already, Warriors have a great fascination and desire to examine what makes them them. Kahlo once said:

“I paint myself because I am alone. I paint myself because I am the subject I know best.”

If Kahlo was made differently and wasn’t born as the warrior archetype, I’m sure her paintings would have covered domestic still life or the views out her window, but she painted herself mostly and friends.

If we can learn something from Kahlo from just reading her eyebrows, it would be on the power of focusing on the self, on focusing on what we can do and not on what we can’t and if there is nothing that we can do, then we must express that. And this is what she did:

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Create Authenticity

Hello and welcome to my second adventure into subliminal land! This time we are taking a turn into the fifth element of the five elements of Chinese medicine, Metal element which symbolises old grief, authenticity, respect, idealism, perfectionism, loss, meaningfulness, and authority.

The archetypes associated with this element are royalty, the divine and the father.

So these affirmations are written to generate authenticity, your sense of authority and your own power, and how and when to respect.

People who have weak Metal element might struggle with control. Whether that’s controlling too much and therefore creating a lack of respect for others, or controlling themselves as they have no idea who or what to be authentic to. When someone has control issues, they will also have trust issues in others, life but especially in regards to the unknown and if that means losing something or someone to the unknown.

These affirmations are a way to boost this department of your life and create flow of movement if you feel stuck. And they have also been created to create movement into Water element, the first element of the 5E (they all sit in a circle) which is related to the qualities of trust, faith, magic, and the subconscious.

These subliminal are best listened to for an hour everyday until you see results or you feel lightheaded. Remember to keep hydrated as you listen!

You can hear the subliminals here on YouTube

For transparency’s sake here are the affirmations that I’ve written. I will warn you that if your conscious mind is ignorant of them they work better, but I’ve described above is a brief summary of what they will do.

Anyway:

I am a respectful leader. I listen to others deeply, truly and respectfully. I am full of self-respect so I listen to myself. It is effortless for to observe my own nature so it effortless to observe others natures.

I am respectful to the unknown and mysteries of life so I give them space and when I do that I create trust and the best possible outcome.

Authenticity generates total and complete trust in life for me. I am trustful so I am carried and guided to things that are for my nature. My trust is created by my authenticity which means I deeply listen to myself.

If I am the way I am, then it is meant to be. If I am the way I am, there is something in creation that matches it.

I am acutely aware. I intelligently observe and have the highest perspective, and therefore I am emotionally healed and emotionally heal others.

Authenticity encourages healing for me. I am authentic so I am healed.

Authenticity is clarity for me. To be authentic to myself is effortless. I am authentic to who I am in the moment and when I do that I create safety for myself and for others.

Power is self-respect for me. I accept who I am, my thoughts, feelings and body in complete totality. When I am respectful I am in complete control.

I respect the unknown. I trust the unknown. I am enough, I do enough. The divine guides me to do what I need to do each day.

Beauty inspires mystery for me. Mystery inspires trust for me.

It’s sacred to respect others and myself. Self-respect means to not compromise on what is highly valuable and matters most to me.

I know, act and embody what matters most to me. Authenticity creates safety for me. It is safe for me to be who I am.

I take time to grieve and reflect on what I have lost, it refines me and it is sacred to do so.

Grief and loss bring me closer to what is so important that I say and act on this importance.

Loss brings me greater wisdom. Loss evolves me to my highest self.

My life is sacred. I know how to create sanctity.

Impermanence brings mystery and trust into my life.

I trust the nature of authenticity and when I am authentic I am kept on track towards my life purpose. When I am authentic I am a fearless and brave explorer.

I notice my breath and so I soothe my fears.

I am aware of myself and so I honour it and make rest more restorative. It is effortless for me to be truly restful.

I easily observe and perceive all things and creatures and so I easily recover, trust and heal.

I tire and exhaust quickly of being controlling and effortless replace the desire to control with the peace that trust brings. I am respectful to myself and others and so I can respect myself and others.

I am authentic so I am free. I am respectful and so I can flow and be free. I am beautiful and so I can flow and be free. I want the best for myself. I am worthy of the best.

I find beauty effortlessly and so my fears are soothed and so I can let go of them.

I always look for the divine in others and see the greater picture of their life and how they fit in with mine.

I let go and so I feed my intuition, my knowing before I know. Letting go feeds my intuition and psychic senses which are highly accurate. The more I let go the greater the accuracy of my intuition.

The only authority I have is myself and the divine.  I am authentic and so I have authority. I trust my own authority.

My intuition works all the time and effortlessly because I honour and respect it.

My creativity works all the time because I honour and respect it.

Respect means giving everyone and everything time and space to work how its needs to work. Respect is honour for me. Respect means peace for me. Respect is clarity. I am authentic and respectful and so I am full of clarity.

My standards, ethics and principles are right, simple and clear.

I am loyal to my standards, ethics and principles and so life’s magic flows towards me. Simple standards allow great depth and meaning to occur in my life.

Perfection and letting go are the same things for me. Letting go brings profound wisdom to me.

I can let go of what no longer serves me easily and see with upmost clarity of what is no longer in my favour. It’s okay to change myself and my mind.

I am refined into the most precious spiritual material by the dirt and grit of life.

I cease any struggle and difficulty by letting go. My struggles cease when I let go. It is too much to control everything, everyone all the time.

Respecting, honouring and surrendering to the unknown brings a peaceful life for me.

I am so close to the wisdom of my ancestors and my family river that I can hear and am impacted by their daily guidance.

Respecting myself is gratitude for myself. When I trust I believe, I believe my intuition. I believe myself. I honour who I am. It is sacred to be myself.

Autumn makes me feels closer to the divine and what is sacred and the mysteries of life.

Clarity and authenticity prospers in my life, it prospers like the bountiful harvests of over a millennia, it prospers so well that I am able to see clearly and observe the unknown.

Authenticity inspires courage for me. Authenticity allows me to breathe.

I am always authentic to myself from moment to moment, day by day. I am always fully and completely and totally who I am.

I am respectful and I am authentic and so I can truly listen

I am authentic and so I am powerful. The more I am authentic the greater my power grows. I create my own power, it’s self-generating and infinite.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of authenticity. My great understanding of authenticity is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life, My understanding of authenticity is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of respect. My great understanding of respect is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of respect is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of the divine. My great understanding of the divine is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of the divine is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of honour. My great understanding of honour is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of honour is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of surrendering. My great understanding of surrendering is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of surrendering is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of gratitude. My great understanding of gratitude is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of gratitude is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of destiny and my life purpose. My great understanding of destiny and my life purpose is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of destiny and my life purpose is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of power. My great understanding of power is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life. My understanding of power is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of loss. My great understanding of loss is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life, My understanding of loss is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of authority. My great understanding of authority is equal to how much I enact and embody it in my life, My understanding of authority is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

Create Compassion

Hi everyone, I hope that you are well. On a whim I am taking a brief adventure into the world of subliminals – affirmations recorded under the range of hearing to directly effect the subconscious mind. Affirmations are statements in the first person that affirm what you desire is already here and so you will behave as if it is so. I’ve been using them a lot to great success for my mental health in the past couple of months

I was inspired by just tinkering with my own and adding them to my forthcoming meditation “The Wisdom of The Mother” to make the meditation more effective, but then I reconsidered I thought to publish them direct.

These affirmations have been inspired by the fourth element of the five element system, Earth element, which symbolises compassion, motherhood, food, harvest, stability, safety, gentleness, self care, and generosity to name a few.

People who have weak Earth element will struggle with kindness towards themselves and others. They won’t feel satisfied or will have difficulty feeling satisfied with their life. They will struggle with taking care of themselves properly, or that the world/home/their life feels dangerous and unsafe. They have no sense of stability (that’s probably most of us right now, ha ha ha).

These affirmations are a way to boost this department of your life and create flow of movement if you feel stuck. And they have also been created to create movement into Metal element, the last element of the 5E, which is related to the qualities of respect, authenticity, destiny, life purpose, standards, the long view and clarity.

These subliminal are best listened to for an hour everyday until you see results or you feel lightheaded. Remember to keep hydrated as you listen!

You can hear the subliminals here on YouTube

For transparency’s sake here are the affirmations that I’ve written. I will warn you that if your conscious mind is ignorant of them they work better, but I’ve described above is a brief summary of what they will do.

Anyway:

I am always gentle with myself. I am kind to myself.

I am a safe haven for myself. I live a life in cosy comfort surrounded by things I love and surrounded by the people who love me.

I feed and care for myself physically, emotionally and spiritually in complete totality. I know what I need to thrive. When I feed myself physically, emotionally and spiritually in complete totality, I am grateful for my life and honoured to have life.

Kindness creates authenticity for me. Kindness aligns me to the nature of the divine. I am true to my heart so I am always kind and generous of spirit. I am kind so I am authentic

When I am kind I feel gratitude.

I am gentle with myself so I can hear the call of sacred and know what matters most to me.

Kindness offers me the best perspective and understanding. I can see all sides of a situation when I am compassionate. Compassion creates perspective for me. When I am compassionate I am connecting to others. Compassion and gentleness creates respect for me and others. I am compassionate towards myself therefore I am respectful to myself. When I am compassionate I can truly see someone’s nature.

When I am compassionate I feel beautiful. Compassion creates beauty for me. Compassion creates sanctity for me.

When I am gentle with myself I am making progress towards my life purpose and destiny. Compassion is incredibly supportive of what my purpose here on Earth is. Compassion makes me feel safe, when I am compassionate, I create total safety.

It is enough to be gentle and kind.

Generosity helps me appreciate what is a blessing in my life.

I know when to give and when to receive, both are equal in my life. Receiving and being receptive creates purpose.

I am comfortable and so I am grateful.

Kindness and compassion are the best medicines for me.

I am kind so I am guided towards my destiny.

I am kind to myself and others.

I place myself first in a healthy way. I am healthily selfish. When others see how much I value myself, they see my example and they are inspired. I help others when I put myself first.

I know when I am about to exhaust myself, I stop and prioritise myself. It is okay to have needs and feed myself, it is important that I take care of myself. When I take care of myself I feel incredibly safe and warm.

My life and relationships work when I take care of myself.

Responsibility is a sacred duty for me.

I appreciate the relationships that I have. They bring me closer to the divine and my sense of authority and power.

Compassion, gentleness creates power for me. I am compassionate therefore I am truly powerful. Being gentle is being powerful for me. When I am compassionate with myself, it activates my power and inner authority. Gentleness creates heaven on earth for me.

Because compassion creates clarity of character for me, that I able see in totality who someone really is, I am able to let them go easily if they are not for me.

I have reached and know my life purpose because I feed satisfied and fed.

I am satisfied with my life.

Because I am compassionate, I am able to let go of difficult situations, people and emotions. When I do something wrong I am able to understand myself and see me.

I know when I have reached the end of something because I feel satisfied and full.

Compassion eases loss for me.

At the first sign of fear or overwhelming emotions, I am instantly able to hold myself, to soothe myself and make myself feel safe.

I am always the mother I need. I mother myself, my levels of self-mothering and self-care is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

My child self is healed, I give them what I need because I am my own best mother. I am stable like the earth beneath my feet.

My home feels like home. My friends feel like friends. My family feels like family. I am content and proud there is so much beauty in my life. My home is found by my heart.

I am gentle and kind so I know what principles I stand for. I am gentle and kind so I know my own standards and I stick to them. I am kind so I can ascend to a high place where I am able to see what is right and what I stand for.

I am compassionate so I easily create my principles and ethics.

I am soft and gentle so I am considerate to others while knowing my own boundaries. I am soft and gentle so I am fearless and able to fearlessly and bravely dive deeply into myself and others to understand pain.

I can hold and understand the deepest of pains. I am strong and sympathetic when I see pain. Compassion helps me with the unknown and increases my trust in myself, others and in life. Compassion creates stability for me.

It is effortless for me to be understanding and compassionate. Compassion creates stability for me so I am able to be discerning. It is effortless for me to be compassionate everyday towards everything.

I understand and know in complete totality the value, essence and nature of compassion, gentleness and kindness. My understanding of compassion is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

Compassion is good for me. I am compassionate swiftly.

Compassion and gentleness create the highest quality of life for me.

Compassion gives me the best level of clarity, clarity which is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.

Compassion gives me clarity so I can clearly see the nature of those who would hurt me and those who have hurt me. Compassion is the best lie detector for me. My level and understanding of compassion is beyond advanced and is at the highest level that can be achieved in a lifetime.